All Levels – Toastology

Unfiltered Answers To Common Poly Questions

2 October, 2024 SoNSo 0 Comments 2 categories

We all have our elevator speeches ready for when assaulted by The Monogamous Inquisition. In this moderated discussion, we discuss these questions in a safe, poly-friendly space and try to move past our pre-programmed rhetoric.

Lying

2 October, 2024 SoNSo 0 Comments 3 categories

A moderated discussion exploring the many, many shades of grey in a subject we all wish was black and white. Bring your opinions. (All Levels, Moderated Roundtable Discussion, Not Poly-specific)

Kama Sutra Kink

2 October, 2024 SoNSo 0 Comments 3 categories

Widely known in America as the Hindu Sex Manual, the Kama Sutra covers far more than weird sex positions. Learn pick up lines invented thousands of years ago, examine the ancient debate over the existence

The Solo Polyamorist

2 October, 2024 SoNSo 0 Comments 4 categories

Too obsessed with your job to make time for a Real Partner(tm)? Do you want to be focused on your own needs yet still have love in your life? If so, this lecture on the

A Menu of Yes

2 October, 2024 SoNSo 0 Comments 2 categories

A Menu of Yes: Negotiating with Enthusiastic Consent A simple, intuitive, yes-based paradigm for negotiation that focuses on arenas of consent rather than the traditional boundary-based approach of hard-limits. Using a Menu of Yes is

Advanced Conflict Resolution

2 October, 2024 SoNSo 0 Comments 2 categories

Moving beyond basic communication theory, this lecture will include specific techniques on creating a safe, compassionate space to analyze relationship issues, patterns and measure progress. Also, a ton of tricks that don’t fit easily elsewhere.

Alternatives to Monogamy

2 October, 2024 SoNSo 0 Comments 4 categories

A discussion about alternatives to traditional relationship structures, with emphasis on the relevance and pitfalls of such models. Class will begin with a brief lecture, followed by a discussion of how these beliefs apply to

Love Thyself

2 October, 2024 SoNSo 0 Comments 2 categories

The old cliche about learning to love yourself before you can learn to love others is easy to agree with, but hard to practice. Here’s how! Apply the Five Love Languages in a new way

Long Distance Relationships: Balancing Love and Geography

2 October, 2024 SoNSo 0 Comments 1 category

“Absence sharpens love, presence strengthens it.” — Thomas Fuller. When you love someone that’s inconveniently distant (or conveniently spaced!), there are going to be some bumps on that very long road. Whether that connection is

Padawan Riggers and Jedi Bottoms

2 October, 2024 SoNSo 0 Comments 2 categories

Overcome your insecurities about tying someone with more bondage experience than you have! Loosely based on both Jedi and Sith philosophies, participants will be able to take these exercises directly back to the bedroom to

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